Coparenting with the Narcissist: Part 2- From the Frying Pan Into the Fire

I had only been in a romantic relationship with the narcissist (Guy) for about a year and a half- at the most. But choosing to have a child with him ensured that the abuse would continue for many more years. I didn’t know this when I chose to keep the baby. I was told byContinue reading “Coparenting with the Narcissist: Part 2- From the Frying Pan Into the Fire”

Coparenting with a Narcissist: Part 1

This story is for my daughter, whom I hope will understand. It’s been over seven years since I left my abusive ex boyfriend and I feel like the abuse continues just in a different way and I don’t know how much more I can take. I dated the guy, let’s call him “Guy”, for aContinue reading “Coparenting with a Narcissist: Part 1”

How the Abuser Will Take Your Child

Firstly, they will isolate you but be discussing you (unbeknownst to you) with your family and friends. He will be telling them that you are psychologically unstable so that when you admit the abuse- people won’t believe you because they will think “well we were warned that she’s losing it”. The image a “smart” orContinue reading “How the Abuser Will Take Your Child”

Custody Battle with Sociopath Trauma

Gotta get something off my mind. It’s not technically political but when you think about it- what isn’t political in some way? We all go through personal tragedies in our lives. It’s part of life. Some tragedies are harder to move on from and take longer. Before a couple years ago, I was in selfContinue reading “Custody Battle with Sociopath Trauma”